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Reblogged from thegeekykinkevent  2,497 notes
thegeekykinkevent:

hellyeahscarleteen:

doctorgale:

Seriously.  The cashier will NOT remember you five minutes after you purchase birth control and/or condoms.  Never let fear get in your way of making good decisions about your body. Great advice! There should be a no judgement zone when helping  teens who want to do the right thing for their health. 

SERIOUSLY.

Plus, there are websites where you can order things like condoms and have them arrive at your home in discreet packaging. Many of them also show on your bank and credit card records in a discreet manner too.

thegeekykinkevent:

hellyeahscarleteen:

doctorgale:

Seriously.  The cashier will NOT remember you five minutes after you purchase birth control and/or condoms.  Never let fear get in your way of making good decisions about your body. Great advice! There should be a no judgement zone when helping  teens who want to do the right thing for their health. 

SERIOUSLY.

Plus, there are websites where you can order things like condoms and have them arrive at your home in discreet packaging. Many of them also show on your bank and credit card records in a discreet manner too.

Reblogged from kinkysunnybunny  4,457 notes
modest-submissive:

bdsmgeek:

ddlgdoodles:

What  are buttplugs made of? What types of lube can be used with them?
Rubber - Water-based lube
Latex - Water-based lube
Silicone - Water-based lube
Glass - silicone lube, water-based lube
Steel - silicone lube, water-based lube
Wood - silicone lube, water-based lube
It’s best to avoid rubber toys since they tend to be cheap but if you’re looking for a beginner buttplug to start off with it and you’re low on money, they’re not a bad option. Just be aware that they’re not as sanitary as the other options even when properly washed. Rubber is a porous material so it’s easier for bacteria and chemicals to get trapped in these pores.
Never use silicone-based lube on silicone toys. The lube will eat away at the material and create pores that ruin the toy and make it harder to clean. Most silicone toys aren’t that cheap either so it’s not worth the fuss.
Safety:
If you see a plug made in China there’s a chance they are not phthalates-free which means you should avoid at all costs.
Avoid lubes that contain anesthetics. While you may think that having something that will numb you will make it easier to take the plug, it can be dangerous in cases of accidental injury.
If you’re having a tough time taking the plug, do not force it in. Use plenty of lube and work it in gently. If you’re feeling pain or it just won’t go in, there’s a chance that you have a toy that’s too big for you and you may want to work your way up with fingers or beginner plugs.
Always wash your plugs after each use. Anti-bacterial soap and warm water will do just fine with water-based lubes, other lubes may require a bottle of a toy cleaner.
For more information please visit TheHealthyBear.
Where to buy tailplugs?
Kitten Cream - teddy bear, kitten, puppy, and bunny tail plugs
Crystal Delights - Fox, wolf, kitty, and pony tails similar to MLP (come in several colors)
Fetishzone - Non-fur tails
Lovehoney - Horse and bunny tails
kittensplaypen (Storenvy)
Jenny Landis (Etsy) - Bunny and kitten tails

Lovely instructions.

For any kittens ect.

modest-submissive:

bdsmgeek:

ddlgdoodles:

What  are buttplugs made of? What types of lube can be used with them?

  • Rubber - Water-based lube
  • Latex - Water-based lube
  • Silicone - Water-based lube
  • Glass - silicone lube, water-based lube
  • Steel - silicone lube, water-based lube
  • Wood - silicone lube, water-based lube

It’s best to avoid rubber toys since they tend to be cheap but if you’re looking for a beginner buttplug to start off with it and you’re low on money, they’re not a bad option. Just be aware that they’re not as sanitary as the other options even when properly washed. Rubber is a porous material so it’s easier for bacteria and chemicals to get trapped in these pores.

Never use silicone-based lube on silicone toys. The lube will eat away at the material and create pores that ruin the toy and make it harder to clean. Most silicone toys aren’t that cheap either so it’s not worth the fuss.

Safety:

If you see a plug made in China there’s a chance they are not phthalates-free which means you should avoid at all costs.

Avoid lubes that contain anesthetics. While you may think that having something that will numb you will make it easier to take the plug, it can be dangerous in cases of accidental injury.

If you’re having a tough time taking the plug, do not force it in. Use plenty of lube and work it in gently. If you’re feeling pain or it just won’t go in, there’s a chance that you have a toy that’s too big for you and you may want to work your way up with fingers or beginner plugs.

Always wash your plugs after each use. Anti-bacterial soap and warm water will do just fine with water-based lubes, other lubes may require a bottle of a toy cleaner.

For more information please visit TheHealthyBear.

Where to buy tailplugs?

Lovely instructions.

For any kittens ect.

Reblogged from myqueersexytime  231 notes

deviantfemme:

Fetish communities have this thing - YKINMK (your kink is not my kink, but that’s okay).

And, what happens, is misogynists and racists grab onto that. Their hatred and violence towards women and PoC are just fetishes! And you can’t help what turns you on! 

So, we must all respect whatever way oppressors want to dehumanize people, because it gets them off. 

It’s all okay now, if you just sexualize oppression. 

I encourage people to make a distinction between fantasy and reality with their kinks.

You wanna beat up pretty girls and make them cry? Cool. That can be hot. But if you talk about pretty girls as if they exist solely to be beaten… Or if you suggest women need to be beaten because of some “natural order”, or you pretend that sexualized violence happens in a moral vacuum… Or you beat them for your pleasure without their consent… then you are lost in your fantasy, clearly delusional and extremely dangerous.

People who can’t or refuse to make that distinction between fantasy and reality should be avoided at all costs.